WHO
ARE WE?

We are not an agency;
We are parents helping future parents
in their journey to create a family!

We help families from all over the worldlooking to do their surrogacy journeys in the United States.

No matter if you are gay, straight, single mom, or single dad,
our purpose is to be your key partners in this journey, supporting you every single step of the way with two primary goals:

1. Manage the project as you need, informants, advisors or as project leaders to let you free to enjoy this precious journey.

2. Have a clear focus on financials and give you options to reduce your costs wherever you can.

Read here what the media is saying about us and scroll down to read our story!

Gustavo and Romain, US surrogacy planners and founders of WeAreGrom.
Gustavo and Romain, surrogacy planners, dressed in tuxedos and bow ties, smiling and enjoying a moment together, against a decorated leafy background.

We are Gustavo
and Romain! 

We’ve been together now for more than 12 years,
lived in more than 8 countries and we speak 4 languages. Both of us have a strong professional background, leading demanding projects in a fast-paced environment for a big French company.

Having a family has always been at the center of our dreams. We explored the options we had as a gay couple,
surrogacy seemed to be the best option for us.

In 2017 we contacted the first surrogacy agencies,
but at the time it wasn’t easy. We felt lost with so many information. The process seemed complex, expensive, unclear, risky and filled with grey zones...

Two LGBT+ men, Gustavo and Romain, and their two babies born through surrogacy in the US, they are holding hands and playing on green grass in front of a stone wall.
Gustavo holding a Matias, after his birth through surrogacy in the US, they are outdoors with trees and water in the background.
Babies from LGBT+ parents sitting on green grass in front of a stone wall, facing forward.  Julia is wearing a light blue dress , and Matias is wearing a red overall with a striped shirt underneath.

Our journey wasn’t easy nor straightforward

Long story short, it took us two years to take the decision to jump in. After a long road, with a lot of turns and some bumps, we are now happy parents of Matias and Julia.

During our journey, even if our families were there to support us, the reality is, it truly felt lonely and overwhelming sometimes.

No one told us about that!

We could rely on our experience in project management but we had none in surrogacy. Without mentioning that both of us had a very tight schedule at work so dealing with all that and having to make some blind choices, sometimes it was a lot!

Gustavo and Romain standing close together on a city street, smiling, wearing jackets, with a bus and a woman in the background.

“We would have loved
to have someone experienced
to trust and help us,
not only manage the day-to-day but also reduce the risks, the costs and stress of the process.”

Gustavo Sotero & Romain Menei

Gustavo and Romain, LGBT+ couple, founders of WeAreGrom, experts on US Surrogacy planning.
Two LGBTQ+ men, Gustavo and Romain, lifting their two babies born through surrogacy in the US.

We decided to create
a tailor-made service
from parents to parents!

That’s how WeAreGrom! Surrogacy Planners came to life. To, in a way, offer other parents, in the same position as us, what we couldn’t have!

We are marrying the knowledge that we acquired from our own journey with our strong professional experience, to create, a tailor-made service, from parents to parents, guiding families the best way into their surrogacy journey.

meet
Gustavo!

Professional Black and white photo of Gustavo in one of his event for L'Oreal Luxe.
A LGBTQ+ young man, Gustavo, with closed eyes, standing outdoors at sunset, with an arch and columns in the background.

Gustavo Sotero was born in Brazil.
He lived in France, Chile, Argentina, USA & Canada.
He speaks Portuguese, French, Spanish and English.

Gustavo has 10+ years of experience managing international projects in multi-national companies holding top executive positions such as VP of Marketing and General Manager.

He is also a burger lover, an organization master and is on his way to become a professional coach.

Visit his Linkedin profile here.

meet
Romain!

Professional Black and white portrait of a Romain, during one of his director positions in L'Oreal, wearing a suit jacket and white shirt, arms crossed, against a dark background.
A young man smiling at night with architectural arches in the background.A smiling LGBT+ man, Romain, wearing a dark denim jacket, standing outdoors at night with arched columns in the background.

Romain Menei was born in France. He lived in Brazil, the UK & the USA. He speaks French, English and Portuguese.

Romain has 9+ years of experience in a multi-national company and is now Head of Consumer Engagement & CRM.

He is also a Yoga Teacher, a chocolate lover and a money saver addict.

Visit his Linkedin profile here.